Sending your son to Camden Military Academy is a big decision—one that comes with excitement, nerves, and plenty of questions. You want to make sure he’s prepared and confident, but how can you best support him before, during, and after his transition?
Here’s a parent’s guide to helping your son adjust and thrive at Camden.
Set the Right Expectations
Military school is different from traditional school—and that’s a good thing. Camden’s structure, discipline, and leadership training will help shape your son into a more confident, responsible young man.
Before he arrives, talk to him about:
-The structured schedule (early mornings, uniforms, formations)
-The importance of teamwork and discipline
-How every cadet before him has faced this transition—and succeeded
Reassure him that feeling nervous is normal but remind him that Camden is designed to help him grow and excel.
It’s OK If He’s Not Ready—Camden Will Get Him There
Not every cadet arrives fully prepared for structure, discipline, or personal responsibility. That’s exactly why they’re here. Many parents try to encourage time management and organization before their son arrives, but if he pushes back or isn’t there yet—that’s OK! Camden’s environment will help him develop independence and focus. He’ll learn skills that will stay with him for life.
Pack Smart & Know What to Expect
Camden provides a packing list—stick to it to make sure your son has everything he needs.
Beyond essentials, consider adding:
-A few comfort items (family photos, a favorite book)
-A simple, reliable watch (helps with time management)
-A notebook for journaling (great for goal setting)
Also, review the daily schedule together so he knows what to expect—this helps reduce first-week jitters.
Encourage a Positive Mindset
The first few weeks will be an adjustment, and your son will look to you for reassurance.
-Remind him he’s not alone—every cadet has been in his shoes.
-Focus on the positive—he’ll make lifelong friendships and gain confidence.
-Encourage him to ask for help—whether from teachers, fellow cadets, or leadership.
Your confidence in him will help build his confidence in himself.
Stay Connected, But Let Him Grow
One of the best things you can do is support his independence while staying connected.
– Send letters of encouragement—he’ll appreciate hearing from home.
– When you talk, focus on his progress rather than what he’s missing.
– Resist the urge to “rescue” him—growth comes from challenges.
Camden’s structured environment is designed to help him develop resilience and leadership skills—trust the process!
Watching Him Transform
Your son’s time at Camden will challenge him, shape him, and prepare him for success—not just in school, but in life. By setting the right expectations, encouraging independence, and supporting from a distance, you’re giving him the foundation he needs to thrive.
Before you know it, you’ll see a more confident, capable young man standing before you—ready to take on the world.
Want to learn more about Camden? Hope you can join us soon for a campus visit or Open House.
